Terima kasih cinta

Since it is a universal conception i guess this blog does not need any intro ... Most people are looking for the affection from a certain person whether it is friendship or out of love ... I don't really think that anyone who has the choice would want to grow old alone unless there is a reason behind it ... Some relationships are over as fast as they started and most times bring the pain along for at least 1 out of the 2 involved ... I can give some reasons why it most of the times end that fast but not for this blog anyway ... Everybody must know at least 1 person who got heartbroken and still suffers from it ... Where some recover quickly ( or try to make it look that way ) others carry the scars with them for a long time ... They say time is a healing factor or at least till you meet someone who mends the heart and make you forget about the past ... I hear a lot of people talking that girl's and guys have a different kind of thinking about these matters ... But i  beg to differ about this ... It is not the girl's or guys who are different but the individual itself who can be different ... Everybody is unique in her or his own way so you can't devide it in certain groups eventhough most time people tend to ... Girls think that guys think easy about such matters as these but with this blog i want to shed some light into this matter ... Like for all kind of good term relationships communication is essential in other words key ... With communication comes understanding and from there on it grows in loving, caring etc. Of course it is hard sometimes to open the door to your heart when you have been hurted or diseapointed in certain times .... And it may be a cliche also but once there was a time that you had a good time what brought you the spark to believe in something more ... People tend to forget that and stay into the negativeness where the road to positive thinking leads you to the path of forgiving and from there on you will grow as a human being .... To give yourself a new chance to find true happiness you have to close the chapter that caused you the scars in life ... In that is the key to find your inner peace and strength to start a new chapter in life ... To the ones who are heartbroken i post this song, remember that no one can give you a guarantee to find happiness in life no one else but you ...

I wish that I could read your mind
To understand everything you're going through
Baby, I could try to find a thousand reasons why
You're alone and why you're acting so cold

Tell me how long you've been this way
Maybe I can open up your heart
See, I've been waiting all my life for someone just like you
And I know you've been waiting too
For someone to love you

All you need is someone who cares
Someone who will always be there
All you need to say is that you want me to be with you
Girl, I know you've waited so long
For someone to love you

Baby, I wish I could have been there
For every time you ever shed a tear
Baby, I hate to see a pretty girl like you
Going through the things that you do

Girl, I think you've gone far too long
Without a good man to make you smile
How can I appeal to you and make you understand
That I'm here, when you're ready for
Someone to love you

Baby you've been waiting for the man from all the fairytales
or maybe just the man from all your dreams
try to think reality, explore the possibilities
cause girl you know you've waited for so long
for some one to love you

all you you need is someone who cares
someone who always be there
in the middle of the night
All you need is someone who cares
i aint trying to play no games with u

Someone who will always be there
Never leave your side

all you need is someone who cares
someone to love you endlessly
Someone who will always be there

Life is about learning from the things that once made you happy or made you sad ... In good or bad there is a lesson to be learned it's all about giving and taking ... You might have been hurt but maybe without you noticing it you might have hurt several people even if it is on purpose or not ... So to whom it may conceirn i would like to say : Janganlah dibalas rasa kecewa ... Agar kau terima yang sebaiknya, thank you for the lessons you've given me .... Terima kasih cinta ...