To have and to hold

Have you ever experienced something that you least expected or not expected at all to happen ...

Actually did happen? They say that it is best not to expect anything then it wil come ...

One thing is for sure my prayers have been answered and for that i am a lucky person ...

And i also have to thank my friends Lisa and Salman for that you 2 are the greatest!

They say that if things happen to you fast then it will end fast ...

But i don't see it that way actually cause it depends on how the story went ...

Speaking for myself,my intuition seldom lead me wrong and i have a very positive feeling about it ...

You can meet someone very fast and all but yet take the time to get to know eachother ...

Without the pressure and expectations and just enjoy the time to get to know eachother ...

Many people would say that it is hard to maintain a long distance relationship ...

On this point i also beg to differ ... For sure it is hard not be together due to the many miles ...

It can drive you apart or it can bring you so much closer as you appreciate the time together more ...

People tend to think negative and that is one of the biggest enemies in such situations...

Negative thoughts will cost you a lot of energy but positive thoughts gives you energy ...

Like in all kind of relationships and especially gf / bf relationship there are 3 important building stones ...

I think i have mentioned it before in one of my other blogs but for reminders these are the ones ...

Understanding, trust and loyalty towards eachother ....

People may say that it is al to fast and all but if you have the feeling then listen to your heart ...

Others can't sense what you feel they can only try to understand what you feel ...

See when you meet someone you know if the person is different or not ...

Because you have encountered a lot of others already to whom you can compare ...

So don't let others steer you wrong eventhough from their point of view they mean it well ...

Others may also become jealous and try to "come in between"

That's is one of the most common challenges you have to deal with in a relationship ...

The more challenges you overcome the stronger your relationship gets ...

I know for sure i will encounter a lot of negative thoughts from others ...

I don't care i just focus on my future and on the things to do ...

Finally i can put my energy in something good and that won't cost me energy ...

For the guys and girls out there you are on your own if you think i will hook you up ...

It's time to go my own way and make things happen cause this is a turn point ...

I can write for hours but i will keep some for another blog maybe the next time ...

Sayang kalau u baca ni, usah diragui kerana aku setia padamu selalu...

I thank you all for your time and for those who have a relationship ...

Stay true to eachother and don't give into temptations that may come your way ...

For those who are still searching good luck and i hope you find the one ...

Sincerely Yours,

Rayblaze